Wednesday, February 25, 2015


Is there anything your partner says or does that gives you a little twinge of regret or a smidgen of fear?

Is there a look or a word that your partner gives you that makes you “straighten up” or puts you on notice that you will be spanked soon?

Even knowing they will come off at some point, do you like to be spanked in panties?

What’s more sexy to you, nudity or sexy lingerie?

You are at cocktail party at a casual friends home. Some one you have met before but don’t really know, suggests you would benefit from a spanking and invites you upstairs. Are you tempted? Would you go?

OK, your turn to provide answers for the other readers. 

Monday, February 23, 2015

Lap Dancing

Women can lap dance at spanking parties all they like. The same is not true for men, since they are not enough female tops to satisfy the demand. Wouldn’t it be nice to have a choice of female spankers?  

Spanking is legal. The only ones ashamed of it are the ones wanting to be spanked. I think I should open a spanking business in the larger shopping districts. I need a catchy name. Spanks R Us would be a little dated. Inside we would have women seated, of course, holding the implement of their specialty.


Bath Brush


Paddle (always my preference)






Licking Stick




Leather Sandal




Firm Palm

Admission will be on a one price Day Pass and you can sample all the laps you want.

Oh, and it will be open to females as well.

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Retro Lingerie

Being an old man, I rather like some of the older style lingerie.


This would be entirely acceptable to me for her to wear to give or take a paddling.

lingerie bullet bra99

There was a girl in my seventh grade Math class, who was one of the first in our class to develop. She wore bullet bras and fuzzy white sweaters and sat across from me. I failed Math.

lingerie girdle222

And I always love to spank a girdled bottom

Monday, February 16, 2015

A Happy Gal

This looks like a Nu-West audition. The women looks positively exuberant about her upcoming, perhaps first spanking.

I want it 1 I want it 2 I want it 3

I sure hope she got what she wanted. I sure wish I had been the spanker.

Here is another happy gal on Valentine’s morning. This time I was the spanker.

bacall 02 2015 a

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Sex Announcement

Reading some spanking blogs, I have learned that some men forgo sex completely or partially in order to led a true FLR. I offer this report for them.

Regular exercise like having sex and dancing are ‘miracle cures staring us in the face’, leading doctors have said.

Some of the country’s top medical professionals at the Academy of Medical Royal Colleges examined existing evidence into the benefits of exercise as part of a new review for the NHS.

And doctors concluded that 30 minutes of exercise – including sex, walking and dancing – performed five times per week would dramatically lower our risk of contracting cancer, dementia, heart disease and diabetes.

The risk of getting heart disease would be slashed by up to 40 percent, stroke and dementia by 30 percent and breast cancer by 25 percent, the report found. Bowel cancer rates would be cut by nearly half.

The report said that getting Britons to exercise for just 2.5 hours total per week could save the NHS billions each year.

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Male Paddling Fantasies

Men’s spanking fantasies seem to be  lot different than women’s. Here are two that are popular.

F/MF Fantasy

I saw this on a message board: My current biggest fantasy is to be spanked with my wife by a woman. Since my wife and I switch, we spank each other. I would like to know what it would be like to be bent over a table beside my wife. To be spanked with her. Listening to the smacks on her bum and knowing mine is next.

two over

I really hope they can find a willing spanker. We have had the pleasure of the company of a female switch on many occasions where everyone spanked everyone. Red bottoms all around. But, I don’t recall Bacall and I bent over the same time. I would like that. I think I would like it if she went back and forth giving each of us a few licks and then switching to the other one. I would want to hold hands with Bacall. I know she would get into competitive mode trying to accept her licks.

FF/M Fantasy


If one woman giving a man paddle pops is good, then two women is even better. In this fantasy, the wife invites her best friend, a neighbor, her sister, etc. over to help her paddle her husband. [Hey why not all three?] I have to tell you from personal experience, this can be a lot of fun for all. [See first fantasy] In the spanking stories, the man is humiliated by the presence of the second woman. That is lost of me, the more the merrier as far as I am concerned.

My Long Time Personal Favorite Fantasy

We would live in a neighborhood of couples who switch. One could be sent to fetch a implement and bring it home for use. Anyone that looked out their window could see who was carrying what to where. Or one could be sent for a paddling at a neighbors home. Most Saturday mornings, both men and women would be seen walking in their panties to a neighbors for a bottom warming. That’s all. Not very kinky is it?


Personal note: When I was going to be spanked as a kid, fear set in as soon as the sentence was pronounced. The longer the interval, the more time it worked on me. I would like to be able to have a little of that again. But, it’s all long gone. Likewise, the few times I was paddled by a woman with another female teacher as a witness, it doubled the humiliation. It would be nice to be able to have a little of that feeling as an adult, but like fear, it is not a feeling any more.